Anonymous asked: bout a week or so ago me n my bf had sex for the 1st time,unprotected n yes i no that was stupid but he sed he cud control it n i dont no much about it, anyway i ended up pregnant but lost it yesterday (as far as i know) what r the definate signs of a miscarriage, i just keep thinkin bout the baby i no it wasnt yet but to me it is n to him it was both of us r pretty cut up about it and no we cudnt have kept it anyway but it was still our baby is it normal and in wat ways can we get over the lose

i’ve never been pregnant so i really don’t know how to help you. i’m sorry. you should see a doctor though.

Anonymous asked: Okay, So I just moved to a new town and I dont know anyone here, Everytime I have a conversation with a guy and sex comes up they're always like "Oh, I know your not a virgin" it is really starting to bother me, Because I am a virgin, At first I thought it was because I had big boobs but he didn't assume that about another girl with big boobs, why me? I haven't even had a boyfriend in 2 years now.

this is probably just his way of trying to figure out if you really are a virgin or not. don’t worry about it too much. you know the truth and that’s all that matters.

i am a little overwhelmed with my own personal life right now. i’m working two jobs, trying to finish school, and dealing with some issues of my own that i don’t know how to give advice for.

it seems hypocritical to me to give you guys answers to your questions, when i don’t even know how to solve my own at the moment. but i’ll try my best.

Anonymous asked: ok so i like this guy who used to like me but i liked someone else.... now i like him, but im not sure if he likes me now, like i missed my chance or something. anyways, theres this other girl who hooked up with his best friend, and they talk a lot, and shes a total flirt, and it seems really unlikely that they would be together, but im still wondering if a guy hooked up with a girl, would his best friend be able to hook up with her? or does that go against "guy code" or something haha

i can’t really answer that guy code question for you because every guy is different. some guys don’t like sharing, others like to brag and share experiences.

Anonymous asked: her alone, or if there is something I can do to fix it. –Thank you in advance. part3

okay my personal opinion on this question/comment/story is that a friendship shouldn’t be having issues because one friend doesn’t watch the same tv show. if this is happening with you and your friend than maybe your friendship has deeper problems. But as for the project you should randomly bring up your ideas and see what your friend has to say. or tell the friend if she doesn’t start participating you’re not going to do it with her anymore.

Anonymous asked: (I also don’t watch this series because it does bring back bad memories, and my friend knows this.) I already brought both these subjects up, and it always ends up in tears on her side, saying she doesn’t know why any of this is happening, and me asking if she really wants to continue with project. The answer was always yes, but her actions say otherwise. I am getting tired of bringing up the problem, the subject and having to think for two… I don’t know if I should just step back and leave part

i’ll answer on part three.

Anonymous asked: I'm having friendship problems, and I've been having them for a while and now I don't know how to exactly proceed. The friend in question is a girl that I have a small art project with and she claims she really wants to work on it, and yet she doesn’t bring anything to the table for us to work with. She’s also obsessed with a series which I’m assuming is taking away her attention to our project and also our friendship since I don’t watch this series- thus making me “useless” to fangirl to. part1

i’ll answer on part three.

Anonymous asked: Am I wrong to love the man I'm with AND the man I've always liked and always will like; the one who makes me smile in an instant and bring red to my cheeks. I know I made a decision to be with the one I'm with now and no matter what, I'm his and he's mine, but my heart can't take the pain I have to face when I see the guy I like more than anything with someone else. HE's suppose to be the one I'm with... The problem with me and him is that he never told me how he felt... I dunno what to do ;/

yes. you’re very wrong. imagine if you were in your partner’s shoes. how would you feel? i suggest you tell him and let him decide how he feels about this.  to me it seems like you chose the option that chose you. and that’s not very fair.

Anonymous asked: thanks for your advice, (girl who hasn't had a boyfriend, couple of questions below) well... that was pointless as he is now in a relationship. So do you think you could tell me why he bothered making loads of eye contact??? ( I always caught him looking, I didn't ever stare like a creep until he confusedly turned around!!) Thank you :)

he may have been interested in you, found you good looking, or was just generally attracted to you. you never know until you ask.

Anonymous asked: Are you still offering help?

yes, i am.